To that anon who asked black men why do y'all hate black women... I've read the notes and non of y'all have answered the question. The only people who are saying something are agreeing and they're probably black women.... I swear black men are so fucking weak that you can't answer that anon' s question
First off, relax. That’s not how you have a conversation with people.
Two, we have really really got to learn to stop using sweeping generalizations like that. You calling all Black men weak and we got one running the country. We got Black men out here with several degrees, several jobs, relentless accolades. Dont do that shit. It’s crazy irritating ESPECIALLY when the reason the whole conversation began is because Black women are inundated with the belief that we are overwhelmingly single cuz we want too much ( #thankssteveharvey ) or because we wear weaves or are too loud. Which is why I said people who say that dont know women at all. We are trying to stop diminishing our diversity. We want to stop believing that there is the good and bad Black.
Three, your line about only black women agreeing does nothing for your argument or essential question/problem that I didnt answer anon’s question. Her question was why dont black men like black women. Again, long answer short, patriarchy. Having said that, BLACK LOVE IS REAL. It’s a shame that we’ve talked ourselves into believing we are a loveless people but I’m not sure how you can claim to know anything about Black culture and not know that. The greatest love songs ever written, in my opinion, have been written by Black artists.
But also why wouldn’t a self loving Black woman agree?